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Hierarchies

7/4/2015

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Hierarchies are a great idea when you are hunting dangerous large animals for dinner on the Serengeti. It may also be useful in other situations, like war, when humans are engaged in dangerous activities that need human coordination and cooperation to get a job done. But when the men who are old enough to engage in these dangerous activities come home it's another matter.

Apparently hunter-gatherer societies, by far a larger portion of our genetic history, had gender equality. It wasn't until humans became agricultural did society become so hierarchical. While men were out hunting game, women remained at tribal headquarters caring for the elderly, the young, the sick and each other while gathering roots and berries in case the men were unsuccessful during their hunt, or to supplement the tribe's diet. This explains why women are better at multitasking and communicating. Women may form cliques but they are really forming equalities. They treat each other as equals as they care for those who can't care for themselves and perform their other tasks.

Boys on the hunt must be old enough to be aware of how dangerous the activity is that they are engaged in, to be strong enough to do battle, and to be self aware enough to not get in the way, be able to think for themselves and coordinate with the others also engaged in this dangerous activity. When the men return from the hunt their hierarchies dissolve into the equalities they have formed with partners and the tribal community, as men do with their wives, in our society, with what some people call women led relationships.

I think marriage is about negotiating best solutions, two minds are better than one, and finding the optimal solution for problems/issues facing the couple. In other words, neither is in complete control, both trust each other to make the right decisions independently as necessary. I think it's foolish to think men or women know what is best all of the time.

However our society has become very hierarchical. Men organize amongst themselves who has the most power and then women have to negotiate with the men in that hierarchy how much power they have. If the women don't go out of their way to seize as much power straight away they will be pushed to the bottom of the hierarchy. (Years of personal experience working with males in male dominated fields.)

Women do not learn how to seize power given they are lavished with attention when they are young and this disempowers them later in life when they don't get as much attention as men lose interest in them because either the women are married and not available or available men are looking for younger partners.

This is a serious problem with hierarchies, being at the bottom of it, such as this white supremacist website claims they are. If you are at the bottom you must fight to raise your status and that means pushing those with less power down below you. You must be superior to someone else at all costs. (We might call this behavior bullying.)

Hence there is an implied violence with hierarchies as people continually seek as much power as possible to gain higher and higher positions on the totem pole. If you are at the bottom of the hierarchy you will be used as a whipping 'boy' and used as target practice by people above you to gain ranks. You commonly see this phenomena in established hierarchies. In a male dominated Facebook group I was on, I protested about a post as being sexist, and male after male told me that the post wasn't sexist. I was assured it wasn't homophobic - which it had passed a test by a gay male, but it didn't pass my test as being sexist. Yet male after male told me I was wrong. Each man told me I was wrong and signaled to the other men in the hierarchy they were following suit and towing the line, important when hunting on the Serengeti, and a form of coordination amongst them to maintain the status quo and ensured I was definitely at the bottom of the heap. If I had rather agreed with them it likely would not have increased my status or position in the hierarchy though, because I was an unknown woman.

Many cultures have coming of age ceremonies, where the individuals prove to themselves their adulthood, especially boys. When girls come of age they become debutantes or in the US they have prom parties or something is done to them or happens to them which implies their coming of age, and in some cultures this may be female genital mutilation. Women tend to define themselves by how much attention they receive. Again this is thrust upon them rather than them achieving something or doing something to mark their coming of age.

But with boy's coming of age in tribal societies most we would consider to be inhumane in our society. But I think boys still feel the need to prove themselves to themselves and other men for their place in the hierarchy because men tend to define themselves by what they do.

No doubt Dylann Roof has proven he is no longer at the bottom of the heap. He has had his rite of passage and he is being praised for his actions by some and associates with the powerful and powerful symbols. We are fortunate that not all young men feel the need to prove their coming of age as Dylann Roof did but it is common for boys that age to act aggressively to women, or others normally low in the hierarchy. This is possibly when we excuse their bad behavior as 'boys being boys'. (I rather suspect the men most inclined to need to prove themselves come from abusive homes.)

We must start learning to treat each other as equals. In another group, I questioned a woman who used the phrase "less than white" in relation to people of color. She didn't understand why I had an issue with her saying that until I said "how do you feel about being treated as being less than someone else". This of course alarmed her, she could not stand the idea of being treated as being less than someone else but could not relate to the idea of other people not liking being considered less than someone else. It was clear to me this woman had adopted the hierarchical structure and was clearly maintaining her position in the hierarchy.

We must stop thinking of needing people to be less than us to maintain our power. We must think of each other as equals, different but equals, because while we think of needing to prove our power we must find someone to be less powerful than us to push down to make us rise up and it is implied violence. When we are all equals then no one has to push anyone down. We must change the way we view other people or we will destroy ourselves and the planet, because the quest for money is nothing other than the quest for power, it produces the unaccountability of those at the top of the hierarchy as they do more and more to teach us we are less powerful than them because we are disposable to them.

There is no real community without equality. Because we must accept we each need each other to survive and this gives us our value, that we are needed. We need others just as much as they need us. Hierarchies teach us: I don't need you because you are less important than me, that the only people worth considering are those above me in the hierarchy. The irony in hierarchies is that we need those below us to be below us otherwise we'd be at the bottom again.

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Powerlessness, food and television

4/10/2012

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There are many things going wrong with our society and this is most evident in the obesity epidemic. To me this signals the growing number of people who feel totally unable to control their lives.

Television is the principal cause. For a start, people spend so many hours in front of the screen, watching people they are totally unable to interact with directly. To participate, when food ads come on TV it gives them the opportunity to interact by eating too. Yes, they have a remote, they can change channels and they can turn it off, but what are they going to do instead?

They see lives on TV they can never possibly obtain, beautiful homes, beautiful clothes, beautiful locations, impossibly wealthy people who have everything. People with great friends & family and their current problem will be solved by the end of the episode. Most often people watching TV, are in sweats, on ordinary furniture possibly in a trailer park. They can never attain the home, that lifestyle.. so there is no point in trying to fit into the clothes they see on TV. They have no where to wear them to even if they could fit into them, there's minimal dress requirements to go to Walmart and the mall. Would the trouble they'd have to go to, to lose 20lbs be worth getting off the sofa for anyway?

The other problem is the quality of food these people are eating. Without a doubt, the meat that most people have access to, is battery farm raised. Most likely pumped full of hormones & fed antibiotics to make the animal grow as quickly as possible so farmers can harvest the flesh. No doubt these hormones are passed through to the consumer.

All junk food is full of sugar or corn syrup and salt. No wonder everyone is getting diabetes and heart disease.

These people are ripe with anger at their inability to change anything in their lives and are thus easy prey for fox news. Washington DC is remote and their single insipid voice unable to be heard by the television. They can shout along side the Fox commentators and agree without ever thinking about what they say, another form of pseudo participation.

It is likely these people are on some kind of welfare package and so they have no incentive to earn extra so they don't lose their check.

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